Most everyone on the planet has spiritual connections to others. I would like to discuss the varied types of spiritual connections and how they serve or do not serve you. At the Higher Self level, all people can freely interact with all other Higher Selves. This is done through intention. When you think of someone, talk to someone or are with someone, you connect to that person’s Higher Self or energy body. Once connected, there is often an energy interaction that takes place. The degree of interaction depends on the strength of the emotional attachment involved. The stronger the emotional attachment, the stronger the bond and the longer the bond will endure.
In some cases, there is an actual merging of your energy with that person’s energy, which may last indefinitely, or until it is voluntarily broken. Again, it is intention that breaks the bond as it was intention that forged it. There are three different connections I would like to talk about that are most relevant in the charting work that I do, contracts, units and agreements.
Contracts are one-sided obligations that your Higher Self committed to before you incarnated into this lifetime. When you have a contract, it means that your energy is merged with someone else’s energy since birth and that you have been processing their emotional patterns and supporting them energetically your entire life. There are several reasons why you may have chosen to do this work for them. It might be because you have taken a vow or an oath in a past lifetime to support them.
Oftentimes in secret societies, adherents take oaths, which bind them to other members of the society. These oaths are binding for whatever time frame you set for them. If you say they are forever, then that is how long they will be, unless you rescind or break your vow intentionally. You may feel that you are indebted to a person with whom you have a contract. You might believe you have interfered in their spiritual growth in a previous lifetime. It is common to also have a misalignment in your spiritual body as a major blockage pattern in these cases. A misalignment in the spiritual body indicates that you have misused spiritual energy by trying to manipulate or control another for your own personal gains. This often happens in occult activities as well as intentionally misleading spiritual aspirants to enrich yourself.
Indebtedness on the spiritual plane is an illusion. You do not owe anyone anything and all such bonds should be broken. When your energy is merged with someone else’s energy in this manner, your spiritual progress is directly linked to theirs. If they do not progress, then neither do you. Your contracts are generally with people that you are close to in this lifetime, such as your siblings or friends and acquaintances.
Besides holding you back in your own development, your contract with them does not appreciably help them either. Whatever emotional patterns you clear for them will usually be put back in place a short time later. Without clearing their own major blockages, they will make little progress with or without your help.
There are several ways to break a contract. First, we try to establish with whom you have the contracts. Using a pendulum to connect to your Higher Self, I am able to see immediately if the people you intuitively name are merged with your energy. Once identified, there are two courses of action that you can take. The best course for all concerned would be for you to contact these people and suggest to them that they be charted and cleared. This will allow them to do their own clearing. Your Higher Self will generally cancel the contract once that happens.
The second avenue is to write a letter to your Higher Self. A written letter puts your intention into physical form and helps it to manifest. In the letter, you state your intent to break the contracts and explain the reasons. You should also state your desire to rescind any vow or oath you have made in the past that would bind you to these people. It is not necessary to previously identify the people you have contracted with in this case. Your Higher Self knows who they are. Your Higher Self will then break the contracts, which will separate your energy from theirs and allow you all to progress spiritually at your own rates of speed. This method will help you to detach, but does not help those with whom you have contracted. Either way, you will now be able to focus on your own energetic clearing.
The second kind of energetic connection I would like to discuss is a unit. As in a contract, your energy is merged with someone else’s energy. There are several important differences in a unit, however, that bear mentioning. Your unit partner is whom we commonly refer to as your “Soul-Mate”. The purpose of a unit is to support each other energetically in your spiritual development. You do that by releasing emotional patterns for each other and helping each other bear the energetic burdens of life. A unit is a voluntary, reciprocal connection, usually formed through your marriage vows or your intent to share your lives together.
Occasionally, a unit is formed when you meet and reconnect to someone with whom you have been a unit in a past lifetime. This person can be the same or the opposite gender, because we may switch our gender from life to life. A unit is a wonderful and supportive energy connection if you are in an active partnership together and both are working towards spiritual growth. It can be a handicap, however, if the relationship is no longer active, such as in a divorce situation. In many cases, one may have left the relationship physically and emotionally, but energetically, they are still merged.
You can only have a unit connection with one person at a time. If your energy is still committed to a previous partner it becomes difficult to have that deep connection with someone else. Another difficulty can arise when your active partner is not interested in spiritual growth and you are. If you are tied to them as a unit you can only move together as one energy. Unless both are charted and cleared, there will be little progress. If you choose to separate a unit, you can do so by asking your Higher Self to break it. Because it is a voluntary connection, your Higher Self will almost always comply with your request.
The third area I would like to mention is agreements. Agreements do not necessarily entail the merging of energies, but are more arrangements that you have made with your parents and your children. These arrangements include acting in the best interest of each other. It is obvious that most parents try to do this for their children, but maybe less obvious that the children also do it for the parents. Agreements are spiritually binding. This mean that you can authorize energy work to be done for your parents or your biological children without their expressed knowledge or consent. You have no such agreements with anyone else. All others must give their conscious consent to be charted and cleared.